Saturday, October 12, 2013

Domestic Dispute

Your Mommy & Daddy argue. A lot. About a lot of little things. Sometimes about you. It happens. Your mother is very stubborn. Your father is very oblivious. When your Mom is angry, she voices it. When your Dad is angry, he stays quiet, which only upsets Mommy more. This is normal. It happens a lot. I see it at least once every time I stay over. Do not wry. Do not panic. Arguing doesn't mean divorce. Arguing doesn't mean abuse. It doesn't mean anything. Couples do this all the time. It's normal. There is absolutely no reason to be scared. As far as we can all see, your parents love each other. They are happy together. They love each other and they love you. Let them argue. They'll kiss and make up later and be closer to understanding how to solve the issue the next time it comes around. These little debates are healthy. If it really, truly seems to be too much for you, say something. Speak to Mommy and Daddy when they are calm and let them know that you feel affected by it. You're their babygirl. You have a voice that should be heard. Their priority is to make sure you are growing up well. And maybe, if you feel like the problem needs to be fixed, you can all fix it as a big loving happy family.